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Common Questions

What you Need to Know

Find answers to specific questions that often come up as you navigate divorce.

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Cash Flow
Cash Flow

What if my bonus isn’t guaranteed - will it affect cash flow?

Process
Post Divorce

When am I officially divorced?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

What if my expenses change from my estimates?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

How do I balance the cost of new furniture with the cost of the furniture I am leaving behind in divorce?

Financial
Cash Flow

What if we disagree on an extracurricular expense for the children?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

How is a term life insurance policy addressed in divorce?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce

How can I prevent future post-decree disputes?

Process
Getting Started
Attorneys

If I don’t have an attorney, do I have to go in front of a judge to obtain a divorce?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

Do attorneys accept credit card payments?

Retirement
Post Divorce
Property Division

Are there any fees associated with the QDRO process?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

How do I calculate my income if I am paid hourly?

Legal
Property Division

What does it mean to be jointly and severally liable for debt in divorce?

Property Division
Property Division

What valuation date should be used for the final property division?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

Are our wedding rings marital or joint assets?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

Will I lose my retainer if I don’t want to work with my attorney anymore?

Parenting
Parenting

When one parent moves a greater distance away from the other, does the relocated parent have an obligation to facilitate and pay for additional transportation?

Parenting
Parenting

Do I have to agree to my co-parent adjusting the parenting schedule to go to an event with his family?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

Do I have to document what I spend my child support payment on?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce
Process & Other Professionals

Who can help resolve high-conflict parenting issues after divorce?

Professionals
Getting Started
Process & Other Professionals

Can a divorce coach replace a therapist?

Process
Getting Started
Process & Other Professionals

Do I have to start over if the collaborative process is terminated?

Asset Allocation
Process & Other Professionals
Property Division

How do I know if my spouse is hiding money?

Parenting
Parenting

If my co-parent disagrees with the timing of introducing a new significant other, what steps can we take to reach a consensus?

Parenting
Parenting

What tools or platforms can we use to facilitate effective and documented communication about the children’s schedules, health, and educational needs?

Parenting
Parenting

How should we handle situations where our children are struggling to adjust to a new significant other in one of our lives?

Financial
Property Division

How do I know if my spouse’s client list or goodwill has value to be looked at in divorce?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

How can an Employee Stock Purchase Plan (ESPP) impact divorce proceedings?

Getting Started
Readiness

What is discernment counseling?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

What if my attorney isn’t responding to me or listening to me?

Financial
Cash Flow

I earn more than my spouse, can I request spousal support?

Financial
Property Division

How do I value a service business, like consulting, coaching or a legal practice?

Parenting
Parenting

How can I discuss the introduction of my new significant other with my co-parent to ensure transparency and cooperation?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

What happens if spousal support ends while I still have minor children?

Parenting
Parenting

If we agree to change our parenting time schedule, do we have to notify anyone or can we just implement the change ourselves?

Parenting
Parenting

What do we do if there is an unscheduled no school day, like a snow day?

Parenting
Cash Flow

What role does communication play in the successful implementation of different methods for sharing children's expenses after divorce?

Parenting
Parenting

How can parents collaboratively develop a new parenting schedule that accommodates the needs of both parents and the children after a relocation?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

How long does an attorney’s representation go on for?

Process
Cash Flow

What happens if one party fails to fulfill their obligations under a direct payment agreement?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce

How should I handle updating my name with my insurance policies?

Parenting
Parenting

What steps can we take if one parent frequently forgets to share important information about the children’s health or educational progress?

Parenting
Parenting

How can we effectively communicate changes in transportation schedules without causing last-minute confusion?

Parenting
Parenting

What are some effective ways to maintain the non-relocating parent's involvement in the children’s lives after a move?

Financial
Cash Flow

How do I calculate my income if I am a stay-at-home parent?

Retirement
Post Divorce
Property Division

How does the timing of the QDRO submission affect retirement asset division?

Parenting
Parenting

If one parent wants the children to participate in a specific religious activity and the other does not, how can this be resolved?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

Can one attorney represent both of us?

Parenting
Parenting

What role should a new significant other play in our children's lives, and how can we set appropriate boundaries?

Parenting
Parenting

How can we set up a communication system that minimizes misunderstandings and ensures both parents are always informed about the children’s activities and well-being?

Parenting
Parenting

When do holidays start/end in a co-parenting schedule?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

Why are my student loans not a shared/marital debt?

Retirement
Property Division

Why are retirement accounts different than other assets in divorce?

Legal
Property Division

Is my state a community property state?

Parenting
Parenting

What if our parenting schedule no longer feels right for the kids?

Getting Started
Getting Started
Process & Other Professionals

How do I find a mediator?

Process
Getting Started
Process & Other Professionals

What do I do if my spouse and I cannot agree on a process?

Process
Cash Flow

Can a lump sum buyout agreement be modified in the future?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

How will an attorney communicate with me?

Asset Allocation
Post Divorce
Property Division

How do we divide frequent flyer miles or reward points after divorce?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

What’s the difference between a home equity loan and a HELOC (home equity line of credit)?

Professionals
Process & Other Professionals
Getting Started

Do I need non-lawyer professionals for my divorce?

Process
Getting Started
Process & Other Professionals

Will our mediator draft final paperwork for the Court?

Financial
Cash Flow

What types of expenses can be paid directly as part of support in a divorce?

Post Divorce
Property Division

My family wants to gift the children money after the divorce, is that allowed?

Parenting
Parenting

If our child's extracurricular activities require frequent travel or overnight stays, how should we coordinate these plans to ensure both parents are comfortable and involved?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

How do I calculate medical, dental and insurance premiums for the kids?

Property Division
Post Divorce

How does a lien on real estate work in securing a settlement payment for the non-retaining spouse?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce

Is mediation required for post-decree disputes?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

What should be reviewed to accurately assess the value of stock options or RSUs in divorce?

Parenting
Parenting

What considerations should be taken into account when involving a third party, such as a family member or professional service, in transportation duties?

Attorney
Getting Started
Attorneys

Why would an attorney not meet with me for a consult?

Professionals
Getting Started
Process & Other Professionals

If I work with a mediator, do I still need a lawyer?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce

What if my ex-spouse isn’t following the divorce decree?

Legal
Property Division

Is my state an equitable division state?

Parenting
Parenting

How can we ensure that our children understand and respect the rules and expectations set by both parents when they might be slightly different in each household?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

What are Restricted Stock Units (RSUs) and how do they differ from stock options?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

Can we split our credit card debts in half?

Attorney
Cash Flow
Attorneys
Getting Started

Do I have to keep working with my attorney if I don’t like them?

Process
Cash Flow

We have changed our child support agreement informally, do we need to file something with the court?

Asset Allocation
Post Divorce
Property Division

How do we divide investment accounts without triggering taxes or penalties?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce
Cash Flow

How do I modify child support or spousal support after divorce?

Parenting
Parenting

What steps can we take to make the introduction of a new significant other as smooth and positive as possible for our children?

Retirement
Property Division

Do I have to share my retirement with my spouse if I earned it all myself?

Budgeting
Cash Flow

How does the standard of living during the marriage impact the cash flow analysis?

Process
Parenting

How does arbitration differ from other ADR methods like mediation in resolving parenting disputes?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

Do only men/husbands that have to pay spousal support?

Cash Flow
Cash Flow

In a cash flow analysis, what if I only work part-time?

Post Divorce
Post Divorce

What is a post decree dispute and why do they happen?

Parenting
Parenting

What resources are available to support me/us in creating a parenting plan?

Financial
Cash Flow

Are there cost of living increases to child support?

Process
Post Divorce

What happens if one spouse wants to keep the home but can't qualify for a mortgage on their own?

Asset Allocation
Property Division

How should I think through property division?

Parenting
Parenting

Can you provide an example of how parent coordination might work in practice?

Budgeting
Cash Flow

Should our budgets moving into separate homes add up to our historical budget in one home?

Financial
Cash Flow

What should I consider before agreeing to a direct payment arrangement in my divorce?

Financial
Cash Flow

How do we share college expenses for our children?

Parenting
Parenting

Is Winter Break or Spring Break treated as holidays or a no-school days for purposes of the parenting plan?

Process
Property Division

Do I have to disclose assets to my spouse that are in my name alone?

Parenting
Parenting

How do divorced parents typically handle Mother’s Day and/or Father’s Day?

Financial
Cash Flow

Instead of paying spousal maintenance, can I make my ex-spouse’s house payment?